You're arguably the most important poster in the SPF pharphis, sad to see you go.
This is unacceptable, you will be hearing from my lawyer (i.e. me).
Pubic accounting...I shudder to think, does that involve counting short and curlies?...for my more busy / serious periods of work in pubic accounting...
I WILL argue that.
To Pyro the Client: You should get a better lawyer.
To Pyro the Lawyer: You should get a better client.
Yes please let me know if someone does 75k AT runs plznthankyou.
I did about 20k total (~35/55/10% sorc/FoHer/other where other is necro, zon, whatever) and I guess I'll never find Tyrael's or Azurewrath (though I did find one of those in SC years ago, if that counts*).
*it doesn't
I've been lurking for a while so I haven't posted in a long time, but I thought I would just say, sorry to see you go and good luck with real life!
Pubic accounting...I shudder to think, does that involve counting short and curlies?
I understand what you mean and I agree. I feel the same way but it's weird when I feel that day to day I care more about what I'm reading/writing online than my life offline in some ways.Phar, I find this very sad - not just because I will miss you terribly, because I will - but also because it's sad that so many find the forum to be a negative element in their lives. You, Jcakes, Kestegs, have all quit the forum because it was an unhealthy or damaging element.
You know the horrible year I had last year as I went through my divorce. I couldn't have survived that without this forum. When my ex accused me of having a cyber addiction, and when people asked me if I could give up being online, my response was "These are my friends. This isn't 'online activity' - this is talking to people I care about, people who care about me, this is my support network. When you ask me to go 3 days without going online, you are asking me to go 3 days without my support network at the worst time in my life."
I don't recall ever hearing a sports fan say "I have to give up my sports team and going to my sports bar." Maybe they do. I honestly don't hang out with sportsy peoples so I've no idea. I know that addictions to sports can be just as bad as addictions to gaming.
Cyrax has a point - you can't blame the forum for not taking care of yourself. D2 may or may not be an unhealthy addiction in your life, but taking care of yourself is on you.
But I understand needing some space to clear your head and reset. I just hope you know that the people on here are real people, not toons or chars who can be traded or swapped or left in Gomule for months at a time. The forum and the game are not the same thing.
But good luck to you, my dear friend. I hope you find the balance that you're looking for and I hope that you won't be a stranger forever.
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I understand what you mean and I agree. I feel the same way but it's weird when I feel that day to day I care more about what I'm reading/writing online than my life offline in some ways.
I also don't think quitting will fix my problems but I think it's at least part of the problem. It's too easy and tempting to open up the forums any time I touch my browser (in fact, they open up as one of my tabs for convenience). I have other distractions online as well and mean to be cutting back on everything to some extent. I don't blame the forum because I know it's my fault for this behavior and I'm glad I was of help emotionally or whatever whenever that was the case, for you.